Alternative Resolution
Are you putting off a divorce because you dread the impending legal battles? A divorce in New Jersey does not have to be a battleground. At Sandelands Eyet LLP, we offer divorce mediation services that can help you make peace through an alternative dispute resolution process.
When couples divorce, each party typically finds his or her own divorce attorney to represent his or her best interests during the at times arduous process. At times, when two attorneys are pitted against each other, it can create an uncomfortable scenario that escalates a conflict. With divorce mediation, couples have the opportunity to sit down with a neutral third party to discuss and resolve the issues that present themselves during divorce. This is one of the preferred methods of negotiating a divorce settlement and may be a required step in the divorce process for some New Jersey couples.

Steps to Successful Mediation
Mediation is a simple process that can provide great relief to couples seeking to divorce. Typically, it helps couples finalize their divorces more quickly than leaving it up to the family court because mediation occurs on the parties’ own time. Mediation also keeps divorce proceedings private.
The mediation process may consist of the following:
- Identifying the issues
- Discovery of information
- Consulting with attorneys
Identifying Issues in Divorce
When a couple begins mediation, the parties must identify all the issues which they must resolve. These issues usually include child custody, child support, parenting time, alimony, and the equitable distribution of assets and debts. Once all of the issues are on the table, couples may proceed to gathering key information needed to resolve them.
Discovering Pertinent Information
Both parties attempting to mediate their divorce must be open and honest with each other regarding information that plays a role in reaching decisions. When one party has most of this information, he or she must share it fully and truthfully with the other party.
It may take several mediation sessions to gather all the necessary information, including information regarding a spouse’s finances, such as the value of his or her property and debts.
Consulting with Attorneys
Each party to a divorce mediation is encouraged to consult with a private lawyer regarding how New Jersey’s divorce laws apply to their case. Although many divorce mediators may be attorneys, they may not provide legal advice or appear to take sides with either party. Parties are advised to consult with attorneys before signing any agreement.


Professional Mediators
Mediation sessions are casual and informal, and they are frequently sought by couples in distress who seek to maintain a respectful relationship for the benefit of their children. If, at any time you wish to consult with a New Jersey divorce attorney for legal advice, you may do so during these proceedings. For many couples, divorce mediation is a welcome alternative to resolving the several issues that come up in court, including child custody, parenting plans, alimony, and the division of property and other marital assets.
At Sandelands Eyet LLP, we have divorce attorneys and divorce mediators in New Jersey to help you work out the best approach for you to finalize your marriage dissolution while protecting you and your family’s best interests. To discuss your divorce with a professional mediator, contact our office at (908) 470-1200.